When I stopped seeing men as only potential threats, and saw them as thinking beings with dreams and fears and loves, I felt a deep sense of grief for the malice I inflicted. Feminism gives us exactly what we want, and enables us to scream for more. How can men ever trust us again? All they wanted was our love, and look how we rewarded the righteous men? Divorce for monetary gain, infidelity, media demonisation, and atrocities beyond mention.